Experiencing life as a girl
Posted: 14 years ago - Feb 03, 2012As my adventures progress, i have been more and more interested to experience longer times as Dianne apart from the usual 3 or 4 days. Recently I had the opportunity to spend a whole week enfemme and it was such a wonderfull experience, I did it again 3 weeks later. The first week was around home and I had the opportunity to work mostly from home, so I would dress as Dianne every day and I would just live the week 24/7 . It was quite liberating to some extent that I went to eat at the same places I do, went shopping at the same places I normally go without any incdent. My week ended on the Sunday as I was meeting a friend of mine at the hotel he was staying in. By now I was really comfortable as Dianne. We met in the lobby and from there went and had lunch at Cheesecake factory. Afterwards I dropped him off at the airport and made a quick stop at Ikea to see if they had a specific item I'm looking for. I spent the rest of the day shopping and going to movies and it was the perfect ending to a week enfemme. That night I was once again amazed at how much me feet adapts to wearing heels when I wear them regularly and it was a good feeling to have no pain even after being in 4" heels for 16 hours that day.....
As my trip to Boston came closer I decided that I would really be bold this time and do the whole week totally enfemme. So after some planning and packing the morning finally arrives. I had to get up real early to allow enough time for everything but finally was on schedule as I left for the airport only about 5 minutes late. The excitement was amazing as it dawned on me that I have left the comfort of my home with only Dianne's clothes and will be spending the full week enfemme in a different town, so there is no backing out at any stage. My euphoria was soon dampened a little as I walked into the terminal building and saw how busy it was.
Well, there was no turning back now and I proceeded to the check in counter and presented my ID. The Delta representative was really professional and treated me as a gg. From there I proceeded to security and was flagged off to the frequent traveller line, and informed that we do not have to remove laptops from bags and could keep our shoes on. The TSA agent was also very professional and called me mam and everything. Even though I presented a male ID they did not even finch and acted 100% normal. As I went through the machine it went off and a TSA agent said to me "looks like those heels ain't making it through mam" I took them off and then got through without further incident. As I was walking to the gate it dawned on me how much confidence this whole experience has given me so far and how nice it was to travel as Dianne. On the plane I sat next to a very nice lady in her 50's and we had a nice girl chat and I am sure she never read me.
I had another connecting flight where I ended up navigating to a different part of the airport and was quite relieved after navigating the hallways to finally find it after almost 30 minutes of walking. My relief was so big and my confidence so good by now that I was not even bothered by the fact that I had to go through security again, which also hapenned without incident. After a quick stop in a local bookshop to get a new Cosmo to read, I sat down in the gate area. It was one of the most amazing moments as I was sitting there and observing around me that nobody was staring at me and looking at my long nails, painted toes and just that feeling of sitting there totally enfemme and dangling my 4" peeptoe pump on my feet was just incredible as I felt 100% gg at that moment.....I was also thankfull that I chose this particular pumps to wear that day, as they were really comfortable even after so much walking.
When I finally reached the destination Airport, I got my bag and proceeded to the exit and called a cab. Checking into the hotel was also uneventfull. The rest of the week was really interesting as I got more and more immersed with being Dianne and getting up in the morning deciding what to wear that day and also which heels would be practical for the activities planned that day added a nice and different insight into the life of a gg. Not that you can plan everything always, as I joined a couple of girls for a dunetour after lunch the one day in a quick decision and when we stopped at a lookout point we all had to get out to see the amazing view and there I was on top of the sanddunes in my brand new pair of nine west stiletto heel boots. Now if you have ever tried walking on grass in 4" heels, (it is difficult to say the least but I have done it sucessfully before) as you have to take ALL wieght off your heel to prevent you from sinking in, but doing it on sand is even worse as you still sink in! I think it has to do with such a small surface carrying all the weight as a stiletto boot is also shaped with a sharp point forward and has a small footprint.
I also made concious effort to really act and talk like a gg and it was amazing at how different gg's would react to me and also small little things that I experienced, like a gg would rather choose to share a table with another strange gg at breakfast than a guy sitting there even if it was only a small 2 seater table I was sitting at. It was wonderfull to be just one of the girls and instead of being more roombound as before, I was totally relaxed and would go and sit in the public areas when I needed to send emails and do some work on my computer. It was once again noticable how one blends in much better when you are acting very comfortable and totally relaxed enfemme. A gg friend of mine callled me and invited me to meet up with her and another gg friend of her for drinks after work and from there we would go and have dinner. Although I'm not into going to bars and clubs, I did so and was pleasantly surprised as it was a lovely modern place with a stunning view. After that we had dinner at a restaurant and I was just so amazed at how much I enjoyed this week......
The whole experience has really opened the door for me in terms of experiencing life as a girl and I will have to explore further down this road. Going back to drab was a little interesting too as I got so used to things like long nails and walking in heels and I really missed them in the following days. I really loved all that came with being girl and it is amazing how much more fun life as a girl was for me that week. One has to plan a little more ahead to allow enough time for make-up in the mornings, and then it was really amazing to me how long nails become so part of your hands after a week and they are actually comfortable and quite handy. I absolutely love how much possibilities there are with dress choices as a girl and also how nice it is to wear knee high boots on a cold rainy day!
This Experience was also an amazing teacher of the art of passing and also strengthen my theory that a lot of the art of passing lies in being comfortable and being able to speak with a fem voice. Where I was absolutely petrified the first time I went to a restaurant enfemme and was self concious and avoiding people or talking to them, I have now progressed to a stage where I can totally comfortable to slip into being a GG and go anywhere anytime in my dress and heels and be totally comfortable and relaxed. It is so liberating and still amazes me at how much that alone helps me to pass.
It also amazed me that after 4 days I did not have to remember to speak with my femvoice as it became the default voice I was using........
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